DEPRESSION AND SELF-HARM COUNSELING FOR TEENAGERS IN NEW JERSEY

Online Therapy for

Depressed Teens 

Sunset over a beach symbolizing hope and healing through therapy for teen depression.

Helping your teen navigate their emotions with self-compassion, build resilience, and most of all find their joy again.

You feel like your teen is slowly drifting away.

You hear them saying things like: "I can't take this anymore," or "What's the point?"

You notice they are always in their room, lying in bed. They are tired all the time and their appetite has changed. When they finally get up, they seem withdrawn, avoiding eye contact and barely responding to your attempts at conversation. They seem to have a constant sense of sadness and frustration.

Sometimes you find them crying, saying they feel like no one understands what they’re going through. They mention feeling hopeless or worthless or complain of feeling numb or empty. You may find hidden objects they’ve used to self-harm, a silent cry for help that breaks your heart and adds to your worry. They are more irritable and they have intense mood swings.

Conversations that used to flow easily now feel forced and tense. Their grades are dropping, and they seem to have lost interest in talking or hanging with friends. They express fears about going to school, worrying about fitting in or feeling overwhelmed by their emotions.

You feel desperate to find a solution. You long to ease their pain, to bring back the joy and confidence they once had, but you’re unsure how to reach them. The constant worry about their well-being is a heavy burden, and all you want is to see your child happy and carefree again…

You’re ready to:

  • Empower your teen to face depressive thoughts and life setbacks with self-compassion

  • Boost your teen’s resilience and confidence

  • Provide your teen with effective personalized strategies to cope with their emotions and develop healthier habits

  • Feel confident that your teen’s emotional needs are being addressed and supported with specialized guidance

  • Watch your teen transform from overwhelmed and apathetic to hopeful and thriving

Here’s how we’ll work together:

I will help your teen…

  • We’ll start by exploring the specific situations and thoughts that trigger your teen’s depression and self-harm urges. Through compassionate conversation and evidence-based techniques, we’ll uncover the root causes of their distress, whether it’s self-esteem, school pressure, social challenges, or family dynamics.

  • Next, I’ll teach your teen practical coping strategies tailored to their unique needs.

    These might include mindfulness exercises to stay grounded in the present moment, cognitive-behavioral techniques to challenge and change negative thought patterns, relaxation methods to reduce physical symptoms of depression, or replacement behaviors to reduce self-harm.

    We’ll practice these skills in a safe and supportive environment, so your teen feels confident using them in real life.

  • Finally, we’ll focus on building resilience and self-compassion. I’ll help your teen develop a stronger sense of self-worth and the ability to bounce back from setbacks. We’ll work on fostering positive self-talk, setting realistic goals, and celebrating their progress, no matter how small.

Your teen has the power to rewrite their story—Let’s help your teen discover just how bright their future can be. 

Imagine…

You see your child wake up with a sense of hope and energy.

They are no longer dragged down by exhaustion and sadness. They have a purpose.

You notice them handling difficult emotions with greater resilience. Their patience has improved, and they no longer seem overwhelmed by small setbacks. You watch them navigate daily challenges with self-assurance. Without the constant shadow of depression, they start to feel more like themselves again.

They don’t talk about dreading going to school anymore. Their teachers reach out with positive feedback. Your teen can focus, they start participating in class again, and their grades improve. They found their motivation. 

Like a weight lifted off their shoulders, your teen feels relief from the negative thoughts and no longer has the urge to harm themselves.

When they come home from school your teen is smiling. Instead of retreating to their room, they talk to you about their day. The door to their room is often open, and you hear them talking to friends, making plans, and even exploring new interests and hobbies.

At family dinners they participate more, even cracking a joke or two. When you ask about their day, they respond with genuine engagement, no longer hiding behind one-word answers or silence. You can see their confidence and happiness returning.

Your child’s journey with depression is just one part of their amazing life.

Frequently Asked Questions

About Teen Depression and Self-Harm

  • Depression can show up in different ways for teens. Common signs include persistent sadness or hopelessness, loss of interest in activities once enjoyed, changes in appetite or weight, difficulty sleeping or sleeping too much, fatigue or low energy, feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt, difficulty concentrating, and thoughts of death or suicide. For male teens excessive anger or irritability is a more common indicator of depression than sadness or hopelessness. 

    If you notice these signs in your teen, it's important to seek professional help.

  • Choose a calm, private time to talk and express your concerns without judgment. Use "I" statements to express your feelings, such as "I’ve noticed you seem really sad lately, and I’m worried about you." Listen to them without interrupting and validate their feelings. Encourage them to share their thoughts  Be patient and understanding, and avoid minimizing their feelings. 

    Educate yourself about depression to better understand what they are going through. Regularly check in with them and assure them that seeking help is a sign of strength. Let them know you are there to support them unconditionally.

  • Teens may engage in self-harm as a way to cope with overwhelming emotions, stress, or traumatic experiences. It can be a way to express feelings that they find hard to put into words, to feel a sense of control, or to distract themselves from emotional pain. Self-harm is often a sign that a teen needs help managing their emotions and finding healthier coping mechanisms.

    If you discover your teen is self-harming, approach the situation with compassion and concern rather than anger or judgment. Encourage open communication, seek professional help, and ensure they know you're there to support them. Support also looks like removing access to any items they use for self-harm.

  • Therapy can help your teen identify the underlying causes of their depression and develop strategies to manage their emotions in healthier ways. Your teen will learn coping skills to deal with stress and difficult emotions, helping them break free from the cycle of self-harm. Through counseling, your teen will gain insight into their thoughts and behaviors, build self-esteem, and learn to navigate challenges with resilience.

    As your teen's therapist, if safety becomes an issue higher level of care options will be discussed.

  • Your teen can expect a compassionate and supportive environment. We'll start by discussing how they've been feeling lately and any specific issues they're facing. I'll listen actively and help them identify patterns in their thoughts and behaviors that contribute to their depression.

    Together, we'll set achievable goals for therapy and work on developing practical strategies to improve their mood. Sessions may include activities like mindfulness exercises, journaling, or cognitive-behavioral techniques to challenge negative thinking.

    Your teen will have the opportunity to express themselves without judgment and receive guidance on how to regain a sense of hope and well-being.

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